Again. 

When people tend to “people watch”, it is always stereotypical for everyone to assume it is negative. As I sit here at a local park- I can’t help but to acknowledge everything else that is surrounding me.

• Do you ever really look up? Look into the skies, the trees, hear the birds sing and watch how they live? What about the locals around you- have you ever wondered why they’re at the park alone, too? Or if there is a couple, what do they gain from coming here together?

It has always been a chaotic world to me. How we are molded into this planet called earth to live life a certain way- to love a certain way, to learn a certain way and to follow beliefs a certain way.

• I have always looked at the world as simple as this- we are born, we grow, we get a career and then- we reproduce.

The cycle continues over and over and- over.

 “There should be a course in first grade on love.”-AW 

 

Not anywhere in our life have we grown up learning HOW to love, HOW to appreciate, HOW to be simply kind to your spouse.

Of course our parents can teach us what they know- but who is really to say the understanding of love will be the same understanding as your own?

Who is to say the way I admire the love of your life is the same way the person next to me is approaching it.

In general life, every human on this earth will have a different approach to everything- so how in fact do we as humans relate to other people’s love stories?

-How can I sit in this park and dream as I also wish that I could be as happy as some of these couples around me.

Why would I if every way a human loves is completely different?

–Because we are born to only love but learn how to hate. 

Because loving someone, something or some value is always an important characteristic every human is created with.

Because at the end of each day- we do want to know if we’re cared for, if we’re thought of and if someone, somewhere- loves us. 

How strange is that?

How strange to fall in love with one person you never thought you leave and have the goal to fall in love, again.

To give the chance, again.

To experience it, again.

To hope you’re the couple walking through the park admiring life, admiring nature and admiring each other.

You grow to become stronger.

You grow to learn to forgive.

And you grow to simply- simply love again.